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Aha At The End Of The Day

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Having just returned from my first trip to Montreal,Canada, I was eager to load digital images into my computer for review and processing. While waiting for the import, I discovered a photo I had taken at Berkeley Lake in Denver. Earlier in the evening I was trying to answer a question that one is always asked about one’s photography: “what kind of photography do you do?” It’s a simple enough question but I’ve really been struggling to answer it… portrait,landscape,nature,documentary,travel,street,wedding,commercial,architecture and so on?

In the midst of this muddling and frustration, an answer came. It followed a pattern: when one is busy doing something else, the aha often sneaks in the side door. I am a photographer who loves to document the extraordinary beauty in the ordinary and to write stories about what it’s like to be human in everyday ways and challenges and to encourage courage in life transitions. It’s a reminder to step into “who you are” and not get stuck by comparing yourself to others.

So today’s image is not from Montreal, but rather from a place I know well, close to home, at the end of the day and in this case a portrait and landscape all in one. ūüôā
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Pull Up a Chair

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In the busy outside interactions of summer in the city, it’s often difficult to find a place of retreat, where one can stand back and observe what moments ago one was in the midst of. On a recent evening photo shoot, in front of Union Station,Denver’s newly repurposed and renovated train station plaza, just such a place made itself known. A breakfast restaurant with outdoor seating, was closed, but oh the delightful configurations of myriad plastic chairs at rest before the next performance.

In the midst of the surrounding hustle and bustle, I observed our two chairs leaning in for a chat and thought about many past joyous moments of sitting with someone in deep conversation, totally oblivious to what was happening all around. We’ve lost something when we so often engage in transaction with our devices while at the same time trying to experience deeper interaction with the human soul across from us. Many times not just wanting to experience deeper, but hungering for it.
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It’s Not ‘PERRRRfect’

 

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No matter where we go today we encounter the world of the perpetual “perfect” as spoken in cliche in¬†many interactions. ¬†I don’t think ‘perfect’ gives us enough vocabulary to describe a¬†current situation and/or an often challenging transition that one¬†might be in the midst of. ¬†So today I encourage you to embrace¬†the freedom of the imperfect¬†…whatever that means¬†for you.

¬†Today’s¬†image breaks a lot of the ‘rules’ of photography but in the course¬†of several gloomy days¬†in a wet 2010 spring, it¬†was an imperfect¬†image that captured a beautiful moment¬†of grace ¬†as I walked my¬†neighborhood¬†that day.

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What’s Right In Front Us Often Reveals Next Steps

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Six years ago can seem like yesterday or twelve long years depending on what has occurred in the interim. The lessons or reminders of that time are certainly a part of who we are today and yet in seeing something from the past today we are often tempted to add judgments about what we did or didn’t or could have done differently. What we have in front of us is all that we can respond to … in ways unique to who we are, our current situation, and what gives us joy even in the midst of challenging transitions.

Todays image was taken six years ago, a few months after my mother died. The sea as always is a place of blessing for me and its gifts nourish in myriad ways. And you?
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Off The Map

 

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In November of 2016 I spent the weekend in New Orleans to participate in a surprise 70th birthday event for a dear friend of 42 years. Having arrived a day early, and¬†settled at the Auld Sweet Olive Bed and Breakfast ,I¬†ventured out with a map.¬†I was in a residential neighborhood called Faubourg Marigny, which, along with my inn, an 1830’s creole house, was a plethora of colorful residential historic homes of the “artsy” variety.The instructions ¬†by my host were simple: out the door and to the left, and another left and right and I would find my way to ¬†the French Market area; out the door and to the right several parks and other areas of interest. ¬†All went well on day one .

 

The next morning I explored¬†in greater depth¬†and¬†made my left, left, right and then ¬†saw a sign indicating that a foot bridge was ahead and where there’s a bridge there’s usually water, so straight ahead. Hours later I looked at my map and turned away from the beautiful urban park along the Mississippi River and found the street to return¬†“home”.¬†I ¬†realized that I’d made a mistake and started asking people if I was headed in the right direction. ¬†Some said yes, others no idea; it was getting dark and my feet were hurting. ¬†I approached an ¬†older woman who was standing on the sidewalk.¬†¬†“Excuse me, could you tell me if I’m heading in the right direction to get back to …?” ¬†She looked at my map, put her hand on my shoulder and with a ¬†lovely southern accent¬†proclaimed: ¬†“Well my dear, you’ve walked yourself ¬†right off of your own map.” ¬†She told me that it would take “at least an hour” but I would get there by following the path I was on . “Once you cross the railroad track, you’ll be just about home” she called after me.

 

Today’s image was taken on a side street near the French Quarter away from the crowds and for just a second on a cloudy day, as I looked back at where I had come to …”off of my map”, I was rewarded with light. ¬†ūüôā May your “off the map” exploration assist you in seeing new opportunities in whatever stage of transition you might be in, wherever you are.

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Time Well Wasted

 

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Recently, I had the privilege to hear “someone’s heart” about some major decisions regarding a hoped for direction¬†in a relationship and a desire to engage in more frequent work or perhaps a career change. After several interactions and some movement forward, I received a note. In essence:¬†“Things¬†didn’t turn out the way I’d hoped and I made some¬†sacrifices, but had I not taken this risk, I would not¬†now know so much more about me ‚Ķ and then this: ¬†“It was time well wasted.” ¬†I was so moved by such a healthy reframe and have been “dancing” with the phrase ever since‚Ķ time well wasted. ¬†We usually say: ¬†“It was time well spent” but this reframe opens ¬†many possibilities.

 

We of course want to have a lot of memories of ¬†time well spent¬†but we often don’t get there because we think it was (or is) such a waste of time to spend time on something we want to do or be.¬†It seems so frivolous or so much work.

 

Today’s image is a view from an abandoned cabin at the top of a trail in Telluride, Colorado. My¬†photo friend dragged me up there to see this “unreal view” of a cabin with multiple windows and doors that each had a unique stunning view of the surrounding landscape. The only post processing work here is a slight crop to¬†reduce the overall size of the image. ¬†Ah‚Ķ”time well wasted”.

 

What say you? Can you think of time well wasted that lead you to new places and insights?

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Just because you can …

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For the last few months I have been engaged in a long distance remodeling project. Now that the project is almost complete I have reflected on how important it is to assemble a first rate team for such an undertaking. ¬† Like an orchestra with a variety of players and ¬†instruments contributing their own distinct tone to the whole, just so the role of the skilled craftsmen/woman provided their unique skills for an amazing transformation of a home with amazing “bones” but in need of some much needed renewal for a different time.

During this time I intermittently did some of the physical work of ¬†deconstruction, which has it’s own rewards, but also it’s downside … in my case resulting in a shoulder that has needed some care from a wonderful team of physical therapists, and acupuncturists. It’s been a while, but finally I seem to be making progress. ¬†Last week my physical therapist gave me a phrase that related to not overdoing it with the home exercises … “just because you can doesn’t mean you should.” ¬†What she meant in this particular case was that even though I might not have as much pain, I could still be overworking my muscles, and actually be impeding progress by overdoing it … you know, if a little is good, more is better …

Well, I can’t let go of that thought. ¬†I changed it slightly as I started sharing it this week. ¬†“Just because you can, doesn’t mean you have to…” ¬†and by repeating it in various contexts, it (the phrase) has changed me. ¬†I challenge you to apply this phrase to your own life and see what happens.

Today’s image is a humorous example of our phrase for the day. ¬†The setting is Belfast, Maine, and just because they could decorate this old theater this way, doesn’t mean they should, or have to. ¬†ūüôā

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A Different Perspective

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Sometimes all we need to gain some insight into something that perplexes,irritates,confuses,angers,hurts, and keeps us stuck, is to change our way of thinking about it or to change the way we view it. ¬† ¬†Usually that does it, unless of course we want to hang on to our feelings and emotions ¬†and “right or wrong ways” about it.

Today’s image was taken from a position below a bridge in downtown Denver vs. at eye level. ¬†The sun blushed buildings partnered with the clouds to delight before another day turned into darkness.

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Dancing In The Moment

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We are most anxious it seems when we think back to what was or forward to what will be. ¬†Regrets ¬†for actions taken or not taken; ¬†fearful for actions to be taken and so on. ¬†I’ve been reflecting a bit this week about why I love photography. ¬†When I raise my camera to my eye and look through the view-finder I find that I enter a world of the present moment. ¬†All yesterdays and tomorrows disappear and the focus is to capture ever so briefly a moment in time that allows me to repent of my ¬†own efforts and be “graced” and humbled by what has been provided. ¬†Many years ago I read a book entitled: ¬†“Everyday Sacred” by Sue Bender. ¬†In short, her thesis was to be open to the holiness of living in the everyday moments. ¬†Seeing the familiar in a new light and searching for the beauty of the common is certainly one ¬†way ¬†that I love dancing.

 

Today’s image was discovered during a walk, ¬†near a 400 year old house in Meldorf, Germany. ¬†On my recent trip there I looked up to see the dancer in the side window of an artist’s residence and studio.

What music calls you to dance in the moment?  What might you let go off to start or continue dancing?

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Waiting

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I’m up late tonight or early,eagerly waiting for the outside temperature to drop by at least 40 degrees from its high of 94 earlier this afternoon. ¬†The windows are open … ahhh here comes the north wind blowing in the cooler air. It’s been a long summer of waiting for the temperatures to drop below 90 during the day ¬†and ¬†then it does.

We spend a lot of time waiting for: ¬†answers, test results, hearing back ¬†so that we can proceed , in line,on hold,apologies,a call,an offer, a loan,an acceptance,a letter,family coming for a visit, traffic, stop lights to change,proposals, news from the front,rides ,resolutions and so on. Some of us wait well, others not so well ¬†and perhaps what waiting generally ¬†implies is that we cannot control the outcome of what we’re waiting for. And then the waiting stops and there are answers, resolutions, ¬†tears, joys, disappointments, anger,babies born,forgiveness given, jobs offered, jobs lost, votes tallied,lives significantly changed and so on.

I was blessed this week by an abundance of “waitings” that offered up hope for the future: a new son born to dear friends, a generous offer to take over a care ministry that I was covering until we found someone; wonderful news from a young man who is healing after months of debilitating cancer treatments and complications; neighbors’ 2 ¬†1/2 year old son surgically relieved of his liver tumor; news of progress and healing of a friend’s broken heart, my ¬†own positive results from some medical tests and some rest and renewal ¬†in the mountains courtesy of a generous friend’s invitation over the holiday weekend.

Thankfully, we rarely have to wait alone.

Today’s image is of my host’s dog Tink, who waited patiently in a tree along the trail while we , like paparazzi photographed him from every angle.

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